Names for Your Baby

Powerful names for accomplished young women

Well, if you’re going to have a boy, you might like to stay away from some of them down home names like… Sue, Sherrill or Pearl. I knew a Sherrill once and he had lots of trouble. Here’s a true story:

(Phone Rings)

Sherrill: “Hello”
Caller: “May I talk to Sherrill LaPorte?”
Sherrill: “Go ahead”
Caller: “er, I mean, the lady of the house, Sherrill LaPorte?”
Sherrill: “got ’em,  what do you want?”
Caller: “Sorry, Ma’am, you have such a … nice… low voice.”

(CLICK – expletives deleted)

However, for girls, a slightly masculine name or ‘handle’ works out just fine. I never thought that General “Muffy” was a good idea. In choosing a name for your daughter… it really does make a difference and it really does matter… so says this latest study.

In  “Baby Name report card”,  Dr. Albert Mahrabian  says:

“…Names like Katherine, James or Alexander, convey images of success to these names; in contrast, names like Fifi, Didi, Brandy or Trixie evoke images of a hat check girl or a cocktail waitress.”

Laura and I gave our daughters names a lot of thought and here are a few things we agreed:

1) We wanted to give them a reasonable middle name as a ‘back up”

2) One of the names (middle names) should come from a female family member

3) The first name should be warm, positive, strong and should sound nice if preceeded by “General” or “President” or “Mom”.

So, take some time to think about how it would be to grow up with any name….

Roger Freberg

 

Plant Adoptions are Easy

Who will look after their plants when they are gone? dad!

I do understand when daughters move away to pursue their lives that sometimes things get left behind. So while Karen is in South Africa having a wonderful time, we’re helping her towards her final move to Tennessee (to work on a Ph.D) by getting her stuff in moving condition.   

One item that won’t make it on the move is “Arnold, Jr.” , named after our California Govenor. He — the green plant — will be the only thing staying with us. This is really not a problem. Far too many parents I have met along life’s path have been saddled with unwanted cats, pups, kittens, dogs, fish and an occasional assortment of grandchildren while their offspring go out and ‘find themselves.’ Hmmmm… a plant is a beautiful thing when it comes alone.

Although, I do miss my girls.

Roger

My 3 daughters

My three beautiful daughters smoetimes DRIVE me crazy!!!

Certainly, one of my favorite subjects is my family … and having a blog allows me some liberty to express myself to the world. Believe me, I am very happy with the young women they have become… but…

It seems that they do tweak their ol dad from time to time. Karla sends me animations and drawings to show me how much better an artist she is than I am. Karen knows I am on a diet, so I think she delights in sending pictures of the gourmet meals that she is devouring with relish! Kristin has her ways, she likes to send me pictures of her new toys like the Audi above.

Hmmmm… Congrats, Ladies, We’re proud of you.

Dad

Science Fiction : Understanding our world via Analogy

Hallowed be the Ori

Science fiction has always been a vehicle for discussing emerging and pressing social political issues by analogy. Nothing is new here. However, how an issue is addressed and framed makes the point all the more relevant and inescapable.

Stargate  SG1 sequence entitled the  “Shroud”  (my personal favorite) tells about an enemy that must convert you to their system of beliefs or kill you as an unbeliever. Who is credible, who is trustworthy are issues explored. The most interesting aspect of the epizode — to me — was the seduction and manipulation of Daniel. How good people can become willing pons and do evil… or will he?

Do the ends justify the means? How can one face evil unless one adopts the same tactics? These are all good questions… and the currency is high in today’s world.

Roger Freberg

Staying in touch… by knowing what time it is in their world

Keeping in touch... that's what is important in maintaining relationships

I have a variety of clocks decorating my wall above our dining nook and each is set to where someone we love lives…. a  world clock  would help. If it is 12 noon in Kristin’s world (Hawaii), then it is 12 midnight in Karen’s (Capetown) and 3 in the afternoon in sleepy San Luis Obispo, California where ol Mom and Dad live. This doesn’t count the numerous relatives living in every possible time zone imaginable.

On the road, my “Treo” helps me keep it all straight. I certainly don’t want to call someone when they are asleep, but as Kristin reminds me… that is what ‘text messaging’ is all about.

Roger Freberg