when a house becomes a home

a house becomes a home when it reflects those who live there!
a house becomes a home when it reflects those who live there!

Before I moved into our present home ( now for 23 years), I never lived anywhere more than 3 years starting the day I was born. I am reminded that the second grade was particularly challenging in sitting in 5 different schools. This goes to say that our home was designed in what many fashionistas call  “feng shui.” This was practical since my sales manager father was constantly being moved around.

Personally, I could make our home ‘feng shui correct’ if I opened the front and back doors and attached a wind tunnel machine on one end and let it rip! However, I wouldn’t like living in a house like that. When I walk into a home designed this way, it doesn’t speak to me, it tells me nothing about the people who live there … it feels empty.

By contrast, and although a bit over the top, the Weasley home in the Harry Potter series is much loved by the cast and crew who often eat their lunch there I am told. I really can’t blame them, the home seems so warm, comfortable and inviting, it practically says… “come in and stay a while.” Ben Franklin touched on this a bit in discussing many of the attributes associated with a comfortable home: “A house is not a home unless it contains food and fire for the mind as well as the body.” He also felt that a home should be added to in much the same way as we gain new experiences in our life.

I think all homes need a little of the Weasley magic….. otherwise it’s just a house.

Roger Freberg

our 37th wedding anniversary is saturday

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sweet & sour pork a la Laurie

By now, if you know us, then you are aware of how important the right food can be to mark a special occasion, be it: a great geographical landmark, our various travels, new cultures and their people, or even major seismic events. After all, cuisine is the international tongue that speaks to us all clearly. The expression “Breaking bread” ,and sharing a meal, has always been the first step to gaining an understanding of those around you… and  you may remember in Sunday School how Jesus was recognized by his style in breaking and sharing bread.

In any event, Saturday marks Laura and my 37th wedding anniversary. Believe it or not, there is actually a stone or material to mark this unusual anniversary, it is  ALABASTER. Hmmmm … I guess I could buy Laura an 8′ chunk of wall board… but that doesn’t sound very romantic…  unless you view it as something  to strengthen a well loved home.

Back to food, around the time of the Beijing Olympics , Laura was searching for one of her favorite Chinese meals to fully enjoy the festive occasion. She found a wonderful recipe for sweet and sour pork and added her own twist of vegetables. This will be our anniversary dinner as well.

Here is the recipe and Laura’s variation

Now, what to buy? …….. Is ten sheets of wall board too much?

Roger

tripe a la mode de obispo

Mother' special birthday
Mother' special birthday

My mother’s 80th birthday was Friday and I was at a loss for what I could do? It’s not that my mother has everything, but she is not really a person who wants or needs more junk in her stage of life… just positive experiences.

As a child of the great depression ( not to be confused with what we are going through today), my mother worked on a farm and the family she lived with loved what Alfred Hitchcock referred to as ‘innards.’  One of the dishes my mother desired was tripe and she had a particular notion as to how it was to be prepared.

Tripe has been prepared forever and great exclamations to its wonders can be traced back to at least ancient Greece! There was even a special process to prepare it that was only lost in the last century, but I found it. In olden times, tripe was placed into an earthen pot and the lid was hermetically sealed with strategically placed bread dough… then it was slowly cooked for a period of 12 to 18 hours. When the lid was finally opened they said the smell was like ambrosia.

I thought that a pressure cooker would be a modern day solution to the clay pot and it worked brilliantly.

Tripe is also supposed to be best in the fall where cattle have changed their feeding habits to fallen apples. I suspect that this is the reason for the addition of Calvados (apple brandy) and many times recipes call for the tripe to be cooked in apple cider. There are a few sacred rules I broke in order to follow a suggestion from the ‘Epicurean’… such as making a tomato based sauce to pour over the cooked tripe.

How did it taste? In my trial run with a piece of tripe alone… I opened the cooker… and it smelled like… hmmm… hot dogs! Well, in the final effort with the infusion of the right sorts of fats, vegetables, wines and spirits… it tasted like a tender piece of beef! The kind of beef that the French say can be eaten with ‘wooden teeth’ ( it melts in your mouth).

So, try it yourself… or just enjoy a hot dog!

Roger

the closing of the campus mind

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The Documentary Channel will be presenting “Indoctrinate U.” The Documentary Channel refers to I.U. as follows:

“A terrific must-see.” – National Review

“Excellent.” – Rocky Mountain News

A hard-hitting yet humorous expose of the breathtaking abuses of power in higher eduation. Evan Coyne Maloney’s doc shows what you won’t see in the glossy marketing brochures of American colleges and universities.

When unsuspecting students and professors run afoul of the campus thought police, the results would make for great comic farce — if real careers weren’t at stake.

The Documentary Channel will be showing Indoctrinate U several more times over the coming weeks.
Here’s the schedule (all times shown are Pacific U.S.):

  • Tuesday, September 1st at 2:00 PM
  • Tuesday, September 15th at 11:30 AM
  • Monday, September 28th at 8:30 PM
  • Wednesday, September 30th at 1:30 AM
  • Friday, October 2nd at 8:00 PM and again at 8:00 PM
oh yes, I am in the film! ... although a bit chubbier. ;)
oh yes, I am in the film! ... although a lot chubbier. 😉 -- It was the stress of the times.

If you miss these opportunities, you can buy the video directly from the Documentary Channel.

Roger

Happy 57th Birthday, Laura!

Here is Laura over the years, always beautiful,  I wish I changed as little!
Here is Laura over the years, always beautiful, I wish I changed as little!

I have a picture of Laura when she was about 15 and although I am a little biased, I can’t see where she has changed all that much in the intervening years. We’ve dragged ourselves around the county including Houston and New York City, but in all that time we managed to raise three daughters and build a life for ourselves.

Laura and I were married in 1972 at the ripe old age of 20… but it seemed like a natural thing to do, once we figured out how to stay alive financially… and next month makes it 37 years. So, as one of your admirers, let me be the first to say:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Laura!

Roger