The SUPERIORITY of MEN! Ahem, at least in Darts!

Classic Example Why Men are Soooo Wonderful!

Did my title grab your attention?

One of the fun things about genetic research is that we are beginning to reaffirm some of the thoughts commonly held not all that long ago… the fact that men and women are not clones of each other…. and viewing men and women as two distinct populations demonstrate many differences that can not be easily explained by the impact of the ‘environment’ or ‘societal’ expectations and training. Some of this stuff comes from our biology, like it or not.

Back to darts!

An interesting article in Human Nature Review makes some fun observations regarding , ” with no more data than that gleaned from a passing glance at your hands, a stranger might infer whether you are likely to have homosexual inclinations, are highly fertile, may eventually suffer from a heart attack or breast cancer, have musical aptitude or sporting prowess, and a suprisingly long list of other characteristics.”

Besides all of the above, here is the really really important stuff:

” Manning notes that the male digit ratio may be functional… thus increasing throwing accuracy.” He adds,” Today, this sex difference may be seen in male superiority in throwing darts.”

Nothing new here… we knew it all the time!

 Hmmm….Maybe that’s why I have to throw with the ‘crummy’ set of darts at home.

                       Typical Superior Dart Player... Male, of course!

Typical Superior Dart Player… Male of course.

Roger Freberg

Who’s Cookin’ at Home? ………. If you don’t learn, you’ll never enjoy this great Seafood Gumbo!

ZEE Best Seafood Gumbo!!!

All too often today, busy and scattered families don’t sit down to 1 meal a day together, let alone 2 or 3. This is unfortunate, since usually the only conversation that takes place in the family is at the main meals.

What complicates mealtime is that fewer and fewer people know how to really cook. Being able to press the popcorn button on the microwave does not constitute enough knowledge to get you around a major meal. If more and more young men and women are abandoning cooking in favor of fast food or microwavable dinners, it spells disaster for future generations who have little understanding of nutrition or balance.

In our little group, we made it a fun activity to learn how to prepare everyday simple meals as well as those that might impress. Besides the feminine arts of weightlifting, martial arts, hunting and fishing… I wanted my daughters to learn how to cook. They do this very well!

So, back to food!

Here is my favorite recipe for seafood Gumbo! We developed it after a lot of helpful conversations from a variety of great folks. I hope you enjoy! By the way, one of the great things about extra gumbo is that you can freeze it into about 8 two serving portions!

So Here it is CLICK here for my recipe! Bon Appetit! Make it for someone you love!

 

Roger Freberg

How to be happy…. make your first decision well!

Sweet Old Married Couple 

For those folks around my age can look back on the first half century of our lives with some amusement. Yes, we were supposed to be the ‘leisure generation’, our biggest challenge was how we were going to take care of ourselves in all of our ‘spare’ time? Well, a lot of those delusions have been laid to rest over the intervening decades. It is interesting to note that few of the ‘truisms’ from the 60’s and 70’s have any ‘relevance’ today.

A lot of what permeated popular culture via the media from those years has been resoundly repudiated either through research or from one’s own practical experience. The ‘alternative’ lifestyles from this timeframe have virtually dissolved …. and their ‘purpose’ seemed to have provided no useful service to society other than to delay procreation and the much feared ‘over population’ tsunami! Our population has grown, but from immigration alone.

In any event, the much abused ‘institution’ of marriage is making a comeback. The reasons are very simple:

“the data are clear: you’ll live longer, stay saner, get richer, and be happier.” — Maggie Gallagher

Maggie makes a lot of good points. I liked her point that the longer you are married the better the marriage and happier it can become. Obviously, the cynic will say that this is because each individual has more to lose as time goes by, basically, more to divide in half. However, She brings out the obvious, that any two committed people can resolve their issues over time… yes, there will be conflice, but with conflict comes resolution and with resolution comes greater love and respect for each other.
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